Writing your vows doesn’t have to feel overwhelming
If you’re feeling pressure around what to say — or worried about getting your vows “right” — you’re not alone. Many thoughtful, articulate people freeze when it comes time to write something this personal. It’s not because you don’t care enough. It’s because the moment matters.
This page exists to offer a calm place to begin.
Whether you want to start on your own or prefer professional guidance along the way, the goal is the same: helping you find words that feel honest, meaningful, and true to your relationship.
There’s no rush here — and no one right way to do this.
Vows aren’t about sounding impressive or poetic — they’re about telling the truth in your own voice. Over the years, I’ve worked with countless couples who care deeply about their words, yet feel unsure how to begin or how to shape what they’re feeling into something they’re proud to say aloud.
That’s why My Vow To You exists. It’s not about formulas or perfect phrasing, but about offering structure, support, and reassurance — so the process feels thoughtful rather than stressful. Some people prefer to start quietly on their own, while others feel more confident with professional guidance. Both approaches are valid, and both are supported here.
Choose the kind of support that feels right for you
Writing your vows is a personal process, and everyone approaches it differently. Some people prefer to begin on their own, while others feel more at ease with professional guidance along the way.
There’s no right or wrong choice — just different ways to be supported.
Start on your own
My Vow To You is a self-paced vow writing kit designed for individuals who want a gentle, thoughtful place to begin.
You’ll receive guided prompts, reflection exercises, and structure to help you put your thoughts into words — at your own pace, in your own voice.
This option is a good fit if you prefer to work independently and want a calm, pressure-free way to start writing. $47.00 per person
Receive guided support
The Guided Vow Writing Experience offers professional editorial guidance for individuals who want reassurance and refinement as they shape their vows.
This experience includes personalized feedback, thoughtful refinement, and one light revision — designed to help you feel confident in what you’ll say, without taking over your voice.
This option is a good fit if you’d like support and clarity rather than doing it entirely on your own. $445.00 per person
A note from Rachel
Whichever path you choose, the goal is the same: vows that feel honest, meaningful, and true to you – your vows will always be your own. But if you’d like reassurance, thoughtful guidance, or a beautifully refined version of the words you’ve already written, I’m here to support you every step of the way.