How It Works
A simple, stress-free way to write personal, meaningful wedding vows – with guidance, templates, and optional professional polish.
The 5-Step Vow Writing Process
Step 1 - Purchase the Vow Writing kit ($47)
You get instant access to your vow-writing toolkit, templates, guide, and the intake form. Everything is self guided and easy to follow.
Step 2 - Complete the Short Intake Form
You’ll answer several meaningful questions about your relationship, tone, and preferences. No writing skills required – just honesty. This kit is designed for one person. If both partners are writing vows, each should complete their own kit and intake form so their drafts reflect their individual voices.
Step 3 - Receive Your AI-Assisted Vow Draft
Your responses are used to create a personalized vow draft that reflects your voice, relationship, and emotional style, guided by Rachel’s professional wedding writing expertise.
Step 4 - Refine Your Vows (Optional Professional Rewrite)
You can use your draft as-is or upgrade to a professional rewrite from Rachel. Depending on your turnaround time, she’ll polish your vows for clarity, tone, and emotional resonance.
Step 5 - Final Vows Delivered as a Polished PDF
You receive beautifully written vows in a printable PDF – ready for your ceremony, keepsake box, or vow booklet.
Write Your Wedding Vows in 20 Minutes
A simple, beautiful way to create heartfelt, personal vows without stress, writer’s block, or overwhelm. Created by Rachel, a professional wedding officiant & ceremony writer who has crafted hundreds of ceremonies for couples just like you.
What You Get in the My Vow To You Kit
FAQ
Do I need to be a good writer?
No. You don’t need writing experience at all. The most important thing is honesty. Simply answer the intake form thoughtfully, and we’ll take care of shaping your words into a meaningful vow draft.
How long does it take?
The intake form takes most people about 20 minutes to complete. You’re welcome to take as much time as you need — the more thoughtfully you reflect on your relationship, the more personal your vows will feel.
Do we each need our own kit?
Yes. This kit is designed for one person. Because vows are deeply personal, each partner should have their own kit and intake form to receive a personalized draft in their own voice.
Is AI doing all the writing?
No. AI is used as a supportive tool, but every vow is guided by Rachel’s years of experience as a professional wedding officiant and writer. The process blends thoughtful prompts, curated templates, and human expertise to ensure your vows feel personal, natural, and meaningful.
When should we start writting our vows?
Wedding planning moves quickly, and vows are often left until the end. Rachel always recommends starting as early as you can — this allows space for reflection, refinement, and a more relaxed experience.
What if I want full ceremony writing support?
Rachel also offers custom ceremony writing and officiant services. If you’re interested in a fully personalized ceremony, please reach out directly to discuss your options.
Ready to Start Writing your Vows?
Get the $47 Vow Kit